tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-64693545866791716732024-03-14T03:25:20.734-04:00Shelley's "Life's a Beach" BlogKicking cancer (acute myeloid leukemia: subtype M3 (APL)), honoring Lily Elizabeth, and cherishing our new baby girlShelley Noldenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15754737331270783298noreply@blogger.comBlogger234125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6469354586679171673.post-46874191978470092692014-12-26T20:10:00.000-05:002018-08-07T17:06:44.543-04:00Our Miracle Baby...<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
Baby Nolden joined our family early this November, after over 48 hours of labor (a fitting end to the difficult journey that began four years ago when we decided to have a second child). She was born 21 inches long and weighed 9 pounds 7 ounces. <br />
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She's a big, beautiful, healthy baby, and we thank God every day we have her, and that I was healthy enough to carry her to term.<br />
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The day before Christmas Eve, the oncologist who diagnosed me with leukemia called to congratulate us on our new baby. Hearing her voice made me feel like we've come full circle. And now it's time to begin the next phase of our lives: being a family of four!<br />
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Shelley Noldenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15754737331270783298noreply@blogger.com8tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6469354586679171673.post-42391512008678322032014-10-10T15:54:00.004-04:002014-10-10T16:06:21.671-04:00The Stupid Cancer Show: Having Children After Cancer<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
This coming <b>Monday, October 13th, at 8:00 p.m. ET</b>, I'll be interviewed on the radio show, <i>The Stupid Cancer Show</i>. Matthew Zachary and Annie Goodman do a fabulous job with this program, and so I'm very excited to have the opportunity to participate. Also, I'm thrilled to sharing the airwaves with the other guest, Gina M Shaw, whose book, "<a href="http://shelleynolden.blogspot.com/2011/07/book-review-having-children-after.html" target="_blank">Having Children After Cancer</a>," I reviewed on this blog in 2011, when we didn't know if I'd ever become pregnant again.<br />
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Hopefully my Chemo Brain and Baby Brain don't kick in at the same time during the interview...<br />
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And for any young adult affected by cancer, who happen to read this, I highly recommend you check out the topics in other episodes of the show, which can be downloaded as podcasts at the above site.<br />
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Shelley Noldenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15754737331270783298noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6469354586679171673.post-7024560749060687382014-09-11T12:48:00.001-04:002014-09-11T12:51:02.117-04:00Cord Blood Banking<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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As I'm writing this, I actually have tears rolling down my checks that are splashing on my legs.<br />
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For a long time, I was under the assumption that I would not be able to bank this baby's cord blood. I'd thought the stems cells were tainted by my potentially still leukemic blood. Yesterday I decided to look into the possibility once more before writing it off. I'm glad I did.<br />
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It took a lot of digging and several phone calls to determine that yes, the baby's cord blood is safe, since there is a separation of those cells from my cells. The baby's stem cells have no history in common with my blood. There may be other maternal diseases that rule out a collection, but at least for leukemia, it is safe. So that was great news.<br />
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In doing my research, I came across a notice for a program at one of the major family cord blood banks (CBR) called the <a href="http://www.cordblood.com/benefits-cord-blood/family-cord-bloods" target="_blank">Newborn Possibilities Program</a>. CBR offers free cord blood and tissue banking (including the pricey fee for processing the cells, shipping, and the first five years of storage) for anyone who has an immediate family member need for stem cells. The treatment for a relapse of leukemia is a stem cell transplant, so that means I qualify.<br />
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I spoke to a genetic counselor, who confirmed I qualify and enrolled me in the program. I'm so thrilled the tears won't stop. Within an hour, I found out both that 1) we can actually bank this cord blood, providing me with an insurance policy, and 2) that due to the generosity of CBR, that insurance policy, worth thousands of dollars, will be free.<br />
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If we don't use the cord blood within five years (by which point I will be considered cured, knock on wood), we can choose to continue storing the cells by paying the annual storage fee (but we won't have to reimburse CBR for any of the original hefty processing fee).<br />
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Both the medical advancements and the generosity of this company take my breath away. Or maybe that shortness of breath is actually being caused by the little pair of legs pressing against my lungs right now..<br />
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1) Lightning strikes (Did you know you shouldn't lie flat on the ground if you are caught outside in a thunderstorm?)<br />
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2) The "out of control" Ebola epidemic in West Africa<br />
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3) The 7.9 earthquake near Alaska<br />
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4) Great white sharks off the Jersey Shore <a href="http://www.cnn.com/video/data/2.0/video/us/2014/06/23/vo-new-jersey-great-white-approaches-boat-chum.steve-clark.html?c=homepage-t" target="_blank">(video of great white near boat)</a><br />
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5) Sun exposure and the risk of developing melanoma (five major sunburns between the ages of 10 and 15 can increase a child's melanoma risk by 80%)<br />
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After worrying about all five of these threats, it occurred to me that none are the actual source of my anxiety. I'm now twenty plus weeks pregnant. The last time, this is when I developed leukemia, and it's when it killed our baby.<br />
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Next week, we have the body scan ultrasound, at which last time we first learned our baby had died. As I'm typing, I can feel Baby Bean kicking. Yet I still don't want to go to the appointment next week.<br />
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Cancer patients often suffer from something coined, "scan-xiety." They may have a fear of or don't like getting test results, because the results might be bad. I'd never dreaded my quarterly blood draws for my PCR remission test. Yet during this pregnancy, I've found myself wanting nothing to do with doctors. Don't get me wrong: I have great doctors. It's just hard to shake a traumatic medical past. It's hard not to walk into my OB/GYN's office and not revisit what happened in 2011.<br />
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After everything goes fine at the ultrasound appointment next Wednesday, I think we'll start to feel like we're actually going to have a baby, that I'm going to be okay. We might actually start tossing around a few baby names, and discussing what it will be like to be a family of four. Until now, Rob and I have had an unspoken pact not to go there, not to jinx ourselves.<br />
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In the meantime, I'll be doing my best to focus on Baby Bean's kicks instead of lightning, Ebola, earthquakes, sharks, melanoma, or a leukemia relapse. Thump. I just felt another one.</div>
Shelley Noldenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15754737331270783298noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6469354586679171673.post-52010089713245059442014-05-11T21:00:00.000-04:002014-05-11T21:00:06.669-04:00Happy Mother's Day! (and some news)<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
Mother's Day seems like the perfect time to share our happy news. Three years after my diagnosis for acute promyeloytic leukemia, we are pleased to announce that God has blessed us once again. <br />
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Are we nervous? Yes. Have I been having flashbacks? Yes. Am I worried about relapse? Yes, but pregnancy doesn't increase my chances. Are we worried about side effects of the chemo? For the baby, no, since it's been shown there are none. For me, a little, since I have a risk of cardiomyopathy from the anthracyclines, and pregnancy puts more stress on the heart. But my EKG and echocardiogram were good, and I've got an awesome cardiologist.<br />
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Are we excited? YES. WE ARE THRILLED!<br />
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Because we are trying to move past cancer, and keep a positive mindset throughout this pregnancy, we've started a blog about the baby instead of writing about him/her here. It's called, <a href="http://www.frompoppyseedtopumpkin.com/" target="_blank">From Poppy Seed to Pumpkin: A "Fresh" Perspective on Pregnancy.</a> We hope you enjoy it (or at least find it amusing.)<br />
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Shelley Noldenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15754737331270783298noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6469354586679171673.post-17413470705677535942014-03-03T15:26:00.000-05:002014-03-03T15:26:40.783-05:00Young Adult Cancer Survivors Conference: April 5, 2014<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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The Leukemia & Lymphoma Society is hosting a free conference for young adult cancer survivors and their support networks on Saturday, April 5. (We'd love to see you there!)</div>
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I love the theme. Young adults definitely travel in the fast lane, and a cancer diagnosis makes it very difficult to keep traveling at those same high speeds. My speech at the conference will be on this topic. Hopefully I'll think of a few good metaphors, like the time Rob and I were driving from WI to NYC, and I suddenly noticed that we were nearing Ann Arbor, Michigan...</div>
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Shelley Noldenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15754737331270783298noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6469354586679171673.post-28727906086329804982013-12-03T07:30:00.000-05:002013-12-03T13:18:13.038-05:00Chocolate Cake Tasting Party<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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To thank all of our local friends for all the meals, help with with our daughter, rides to the hospital, and emotional support, Ryan and I hosted a chocolate cake tasting party in November. Why chocolate cake? Because each time I've had a good remission test result, we've celebrated with a piece, and the party happened to coincide with receiving the news that I'm still in remission. (Two years now, three to go until I'm considered cured.)</div>
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The party, with so many dear friends, was wonderful. The cakes delicious. Our only regret is that so many of those who helped us through this ordeal weren't local. (In retrospect, we should have FedEx'ed the leftovers!)</div>
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We had five full-size cakes in the competition. Guests received a voting card, one side of which had room for notes, and the other side contained the voting ballet for the three categories- Best Looking, Best Taste, Best in Show. We decided to have guests cut their own pieces,</div>
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We displayed the cakes amongst white flower floral arrangements that contained chocolate roses,</div>
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The other decorations were brown and gold.</div>
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Each of the cakes in the competition had meaning to Rob and me. It was a blind taste testing, so after the ballots were turned in, we shared the below details with our friends:</div>
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<strong>"Death by Chocolate" from the A&P Supermarket bakery</strong></div>
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Our close friends, John and Vanessa, who were there for us through the daily grind of my hospital stay, recovery, and chemo treatments, introduced us to this cake for one of my first remission celebration moments.</div>
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The inside had layers of chocolate cake and fudge / chocolate frosting</div>
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<strong>Customized cake from Sugarflake Bakery in Wyckoff</strong></div>
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The inside had layers of chocolate cake and pudding filling.</div>
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<strong>"Our Famous Turtle" from Cafe Latte in Minneapolis</strong></div>
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When Rob and I were dating in Minneapolis, Cafe Latte was one of our favorite restaurants,</div>
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<strong>Chocolate Rosettes, homemade by Mom</strong></div>
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My mom made these same rosettes for my sister-in-law's bachelorette party, since Jen had a rose-themed wedding.</div>
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There was no fudging layering in these, and so were a big hit for the guests who favor a slightly less sweet dessert.</div>
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<strong>Seven-Layer Chocolate Cake from The Palm in Manhattan</strong></div>
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This was our favorite cake while living in NYC. In advance of our wedding, we took a slice of the cake on the plane and give it to the baker at our reception venue, with the request to model our wedding cake after it.</div>
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As the name suggests, the cake contained seven layers of chocolate cake and a fudgy/mouse filling.</div>
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The box it came in was from a place called Sweet Street Bakery, so if anyone not in NYC wants to try this cake, it can be ordered here: <a href="https://www.sweetstreet.com/big-chocolate-cake.html" target="_blank">Sweet Street Bakery</a></div>
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The sweetest treat of all!</div>
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GORGEOUS roses from Bill and Emily, who couldn't make it to the party.</div>
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No one in my family had a chance to have a slice, which is just fine: The next time I receive a good remission test result, I know where we'll be headed.</div>
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Again, thank you to all who have helped our family during my treatment. Here's to many more years of friendship and many more slices of cake!</h3>
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Shelley Noldenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15754737331270783298noreply@blogger.com4tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6469354586679171673.post-30221574227226742542013-11-06T07:31:00.000-05:002013-11-06T07:31:20.109-05:00More Magazine 2013 Beauty Search - On-line Article<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
The on-line version of the article and accompanying photo shoot pics can be viewed at:<br />
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<a href="http://www.more.com/beauty/2013-beauty-search-winners" target="_blank">2013 Beauty Search Winners</a><br />
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In the November edition on newsstands now, there's a "behind the scenes" photo montage from the photo shoot. I saw it while standing in line at BJ's on Sunday, while wearing faded yoga pants and no make-up. What a contrast!<br />
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This afternoon, I have my quarterly appointment with Dr. Goldberg at the John Theurer Cancer Center. It feels so great not to be starting another round of chemo this week!!!</div>
Shelley Noldenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15754737331270783298noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6469354586679171673.post-40739291062122588612013-11-05T20:19:00.000-05:002013-11-05T20:19:01.586-05:00Creative Writing Workshop Recap<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
The creative writing workshop, which I led at the John Theurer Cancer Center, went well. One of the "ground rules" for the group setting was that we keep the session confidential. This helps participants to feel safe and secure while sharing their work and emotions. So I won't be sharing my take on the session, but I was very pleased to find out that two of the participants gave the cancer center permission to post on its blog essays they wrote during the evening.<br />
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For the first experience, we taped print-outs of road signs on the walls and asked the group to free-write about their cancer journey as it relates to one or more of the signs. Two of the survivors' resulting work can be read at the links below:<br />
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<a href="http://www.jtcancercenter.org/blog/entry/signs_by_bridget_ryan" target="_blank">Signs</a><br />
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For the exercise, I chose to write about a falling rocks caution sign. My 10-minute free-write is below:<br />
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The mesh netting holds back the rock, jutting from the face of the cliffs, from falling onto the cars driving through the narrow passageway. In the dim light of the headlights, I can just make out the snow, capping the rock outcroppings of this mountain near Vail, Colorado. I'm afraid these boulders will fall, crushing our car. The sign warns it can happen, despite the metal latticework barriers. The mountainside will crumble, just as our car passes by it. Bad luck. That's all it will be. I should never have gotten leukemia. I should have given birth to a sweet girl named Lily Elizabeth on August 14, 2011. Her skin would have been soft, and pale. Thick dark hair, brushing my cheek as we snuggle. New baby smell. Instead, the chemical smell of the disinfectant soap in the bathroom of my solitary room at the hospital lingers in my nose. How can I trust that the rocks won't fall when they've already fallen once? If they hit our car, I will feel the crushing bone pain all over again, as bad as it had been after the Neupogen shots. Pain like my bones are breaking, like someone has shattered my knee caps. The probability of latent side effects from the treatments can't be that different from the chances of those rocks falling. But I cringe as we pass through the gap bored through the mountain, trying to make out the the mesh netting in the darkness. I'm so busy watching the rock walls that I'm not looking ahead, toward our family vacation. Nor am I listening to what my daughter is trying to tell me from her car seat in the back.<br />
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The last two lines of this free-write were a surprise revelation, and serve as a point I need to keep reminding myself of any time I get into one of my downward anxiety spirals. I went into the session viewing it as a way to help other survivors, and left the event surprised by how much I'd gotten out of it as well.<br />
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<i>If you're going through a tough time in your life, trying searching on the web for road sign images, and spend ten minutes writing about one or more. You may also be surprised by the result.</i></div>
Shelley Noldenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15754737331270783298noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6469354586679171673.post-1694879232452177032013-10-01T19:51:00.000-04:002013-10-01T19:51:00.301-04:00Creative Writing Workshop @ the John Theurer Cancer Center, Tuesday October 22<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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If you're a young adult affected by cancer, we'd love to have you join us for this event:</div>
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materials will be provided, but please feel free to bring your favorite journal,
a laptop, or a tablet with a keyboard.</span></li>
<li><span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 150%; text-indent: -0.25in;">Never
tried creative writing to help you deal with cancer? No worries, this session
will be a good introduction. If you’re an experienced writer, we’ll challenge
you with new prompts and give you an opportunity to share your own tips with
our writing community.</span></li>
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won’t be required to share what you write following each prompt, but those who
wish to participate in the post free-write discussions will be encouraged to do
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percent of writing is revision. The atmosphere of the workshop will be relaxed
and friendly, with no expectations of perfect work. We’re all dealing with
stupid cancer, and this will be a chance to “work it out” in a supportive
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the writing exercises, there will be an *optional* opportunity for participants
to read something they have prepared in advance. </span></li>
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presenter will have three minutes. This is enough time to read a full blog
post, a few poems, or 2-3 double-spaced pages. No one will be timing you during
your reading. From my experience at open mic events, presenters who meaningfully
exceed the three minute mark tend to lose the attention of the audience.</span></li>
<li><span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 150%; text-indent: -0.25in;">Practice
at home: read slowly, out loud, in front of a mirror, and time yourself. You’ll
feel more comfortable when in front of the mic if you’ve practiced. And if you
have last minute jitters: don’t worry; it’s OK to pass! We all have good days
and bad days.</span></li>
<li><span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 150%; text-indent: -0.25in;">When
choosing your material, consider the following: a serious piece may be exactly
what you need to share with this audience, who “gets” what you’re going
through. If so, you will receive support and praise for your courage afterward.
A serious piece, however, can be harder to read than a humorous one because you
may not receive audience cues real-time. A humorous reading elicits laughs, and
thus can be a more positive experience while you’re holding the mic. That
shouldn’t stop you from reading your serious work; just know ahead of time that
the positive feedback will likely come post the reading instead of during. Both
types of work will be well-received by the audience, just in different ways.
Share with us whatever is most important to you.</span></li>
<li><span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 150%; text-indent: -0.25in;">Avoid
controversial topics or language that might offend an audience member. We want
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person who takes the mic deserves our praise for sharing something personal
with us. Immediately after or at the end of the evening, let the presenters
know how much you enjoyed their readings.</span></li>
<li><span style="font-size: 12pt; line-height: 150%; text-indent: -0.25in;">If
a particular reading moves you, don’t be shy in asking for a copy or connecting
with its author!</span></li>
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<span style="line-height: 24.545454025268555px;">Questions? Contact me <a href="http://www.shelleynolden.blogspot.com/p/your-name-your-email-required-your.html" target="_blank">here</a>.</span><br />
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Shelley Noldenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15754737331270783298noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6469354586679171673.post-3976026012092290402013-09-21T15:17:00.000-04:002013-09-22T21:26:49.866-04:00More Magazine 2013 Beauty Search Photo Shoot: Behind the Scenes<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
The photo shoot in NYC was a memorable event, especially because my mom and her twin sister, Lynn were with me! It just happened to work out that the date of the shoot coincided with my aunt's visit! Since they are both beautiful, it felt weird to have them watching the happenings instead of being in the camera's focus.<br />
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The prize package included a stay in an NYC hotel, so the day before, we drove into the city and my Mom, Lynn, my husband, and daughter went to The Lion King on Broadway. When I checked into the hotel, an amazing goody was awaiting me. <br />
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<tr><td class="tr-caption" style="text-align: center;">More Magazine Goody Bag. My mom ganked the wine charms and mascara.<br />
My daughter took the sparkly nail polish.<br />
My husband took the granola bars and caramels.<br />
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Yugo, the make-up artist, told me the goal was "natural but beautiful." While she was doing my make-up, another woman did my nails. I'd never felt so pampered before. To think, just over two years earlier, the only people touching me were doctors, and their touch usually involved a needle.<br />
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After selecting the outfits, the hairdresser did a fabulous job with my hair. Hesitantly, he'd asked if he could cut it a bit shorter while styling. I told him to go ahead, it's just hair. (That attitude took me a long time to development post losing my hair from the chemo.)<br />
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After having so many people futz over me, including Johnny, who was in charge of the fashions/clothing, and his assistant who helped dress me and select jewelry, as well as a seamstress, I didn't feel beautiful; I felt HEALTHY. I was so happy to be living, experiencing this fun day with Mom and Lynn. <br />
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During the day, I was also interviewed by Genevieve for the article, and they recorded some video of me for More Magazine's new Blippar function on its pages. After downloading the app, you can scan my page and watch a short video, which I haven't watched because I'm too self-conscious. Ari, the photographer, did a great job of making me feel at ease. By the end of the session, I was exhausted, and starving. I rushed to the lunch spread and took down two brownies and a cookie before I'd even realized I'd picked them up. <br />
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Shelley Noldenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15754737331270783298noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6469354586679171673.post-43422298719437535882013-09-20T11:42:00.000-04:002013-09-22T10:29:29.446-04:00More Magazine 2013 Beauty Search: Prize Money Proceeds<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
<span style="font-family: inherit;">When the fashion editor of More Magazine called to inform me that I'd won the 30's age division of the 2013 More Magazine Beauty Search, I was thrilled BECAUSE the prize money enabled me to make the donations I've described below. These three organizations provided my family and me with much needed support during the darkest days following my leukemia diagnosis. I'm so happy to be giving back to them. </span><br />
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<span style="font-family: inherit;">(In terms of the October edition of the magazine, featuring the winners, it hit news stands today. I'll be posting about my experience at the photo shoot, with some pics, sometime this weekend.) </span><br />
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<a href="http://shelleynolden.blogspot.com/2013/05/more-magazine-2013-beauty-search.html" target="_blank">More Magazine 2013 Beauty Search Finalist</a></div>
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Shelley Noldenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15754737331270783298noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6469354586679171673.post-32069955084486658772013-09-18T15:52:00.000-04:002013-09-19T13:20:15.120-04:00Alex and Ani Charm Bangle Designed to Support Light the Night<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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An announcement from the Leukemia & Lymphoma society: "Alex and Ani has designed a charm bangle to support Light The Night! For every bangle sold in store or online, LLS will receive 20% of sales to support the Light The Night Walk campaign! The Lighthouse Bangle officially launched on Monday, September 9th. The Lighthouse design was chosen because Light The Night and LLS lights the way for patients and provides hope to families battling cancer. It is a reminder to all to be optimistic and keep strong through difficult times."<br />
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Shelley Noldenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15754737331270783298noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6469354586679171673.post-62487343759610011202013-09-12T13:41:00.000-04:002013-09-12T13:44:46.103-04:00The Leukemia & Lymphoma Society's Light the Night Campaign<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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This year, our family will just be participating in the NYC Light the Night event on Wednesday, September 25. My brother, Jeff, and his family will be joining us from Wisconsin! Unfortunately, we won't be able to do the NJ walk this year, but plan to next year.<br />
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For info on how to get involved in our Light the Night fundraising campaign, please visit: <a href="http://www.shelleynolden.blogspot.com/p/light-night-team-homepage.html" target="_blank">Light the Night - Team Life's a Beach</a><br />
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Shelley Noldenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15754737331270783298noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6469354586679171673.post-3464357009104355072013-08-28T11:00:00.001-04:002013-09-09T15:31:39.759-04:00Remission Test Results<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
The PCR test came back clean, so I'm still in remission!<br />
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Shelley Noldenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15754737331270783298noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6469354586679171673.post-91084244371912759602013-08-22T12:23:00.000-04:002013-08-22T12:23:02.574-04:00FINISHED with Chemo!<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
Last night I took my final dose of ATRA, almost two-and-a-half years after my AML diagnosis.<br />
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It's hard to believe the end of treatment has finally come. We haven't received my quarterly PCR remission test result yet, but once that does come in, knock on wood, we'll be able to celebrate the end. Until I hit the five-year mark, I'll still be seeing my oncologist quarterly, and having my blood tested at each of those appointments, but NO MORE PAIN, NAUSEA, AND INSOMNIA!!!<br />
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Today, my family starts a new phase in our lives. For as far back as my daughter's memories go, she's been aware of me taking medicine and feeling sick, and having lots of doctor appointments because of the "Tiny Bad Guys." As long as I stay in remission, these memories of hers will slip away.<br />
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For me, despite episodes of forgetfulness that I attribute to "Chemo Brain," all that's happened won't disappear from my memory bank. Nor will it be forgotten by the rest of my family. My doctor says it's very common for cancer patients to experience a form of Post Traumatic Stress Disorder. Also, many patients feel somewhat lost post the end of treatment. There's comfort in following a treatment plan, and knowing that the medicine is actively fighting on your behalf within your body.<br />
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That said, it's also very liberating to clean out the medicine cabinet and toss out the schedule. I'm happy to be moving on. In general, cancer survivorship is a term that connotes pride and accomplishment. It's a label that helps to define a person. I haven't yet figured out how much I want it to define me. True, our experiences shape who we are, and I'm not the same person I was before my diagnosis, yet I'm ready to get on with life.<br />
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My anxieties about relapse and latent side-effects from the treatment didn't disappear last night with my last dose. Will allowing my survivorship to be a bigger part of my identity help me cope with these anxieties, or worsen them? I haven't yet figured that out. Nor do I need to yet. For now, I can just take things one day at a time. And enjoy it.<br />
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Thank you to everyone who's been so supportive during these treatments. A special thank you to Rob and my parents, and to Mary Lou and Aunt Mary for all of their cheerful cards, filled with words of encouragement.</div>
Shelley Noldenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15754737331270783298noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6469354586679171673.post-2214911707045874142013-08-14T14:50:00.002-04:002013-08-14T14:50:20.585-04:00Happy Birthday, Lily<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
Happy birthday, my little angel. <br />
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Hopefully your great grandparents and cousin, Timothy, are showering you with love and kisses.<br />
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Next year, when I won't be doing chemo on your birthday, your daddy and I will do something fitting to commemorate your day. And some day, when your sister is old enough to understand, she will too.<br />
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Shelley Noldenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15754737331270783298noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6469354586679171673.post-50428422436197479322013-08-11T17:31:00.001-04:002013-08-11T17:31:13.609-04:00Day Five<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
Last night and today haven't been great. Woke at 1:30am from the head pain and shortly thereafter was dealing with nausea. Managed to sleep through some of the pain this afternoon. Mom/husband/daughter at the zoo. Beautiful summer day. Trying not to feel depressed about being inside, feeling crummy. Ten days, this will be over, and I have to keep reminding myself that these wretched pills have been killing any lingering, hiding cancer cells.</div>
Shelley Noldenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15754737331270783298noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6469354586679171673.post-4827788609600617092013-08-07T13:48:00.003-04:002013-08-07T13:48:47.816-04:00Last Round of Chemo!<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
This morning I started my last round of ATRA, and the last step in my 2.5 year chemotherapy regimen for APL (as long as I don't relapse, that is. Knock on wood!)<br />
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Now to get a nap in before the head pain intensifies...</div>
Shelley Noldenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15754737331270783298noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6469354586679171673.post-33755613271975732452013-08-05T21:32:00.000-04:002013-08-06T13:44:26.880-04:00Book Review: The Promise of Stardust<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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A neonatal intensive care nurse, Sibley's experience and knowledge of the subject matter enriches the narrative. Told from Matt's point of view, Sibley has created a compelling, believable male narrator. This story is a great pick for anyone who likes reading about more complex topics that involve issues of morality. I also recommend it for any woman who's had a miscarriage/stillborn or infertility issues.<br />
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Shelley Noldenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15754737331270783298noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6469354586679171673.post-30846113664363627302013-07-27T13:38:00.001-04:002013-07-27T13:40:39.503-04:00BRAVE Purple<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
This is a touching video about a wish-come-true for a three-year-old girl battling neuroblastoma.<br />
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<a href="http://fxn.ws/12Riu4V" target="_blank">Little girl gets dream house thanks to 'Make a Wish'</a><br />
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My dad has been involved with Make a Wish Wisconsin for years. Many in the construction industry in Southeastern Wisconsin work with him on fundraising. In this case, a construction crew of Ross & Associates literally sweated for the cause. They showed up one morning and built this little girl's dream home in a day. <br />
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AND MOST IMPORTANTLY: There are no signs of the cancer in the toddler's body. In a few years, she will be considered CURED. And by then, she will have had many happy memories in her purple playhouse.</div>
Shelley Noldenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15754737331270783298noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6469354586679171673.post-40270418147273177462013-07-27T08:17:00.001-04:002013-07-27T08:17:12.659-04:00New HuffPost Blog Post: Tips for Building a Great Hat Collection After Chemo<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
My new post is now live on the HuffPost Blog. Hopefully the tips are helpful for cancer patients who are now dealing with the bummer side effect of hair loss. Chemo is a great thing. As many patients are reminded, the fact that the rapidly-multiplying hair cells are destroyed means that the chemo is doing its job on other fast-dividing cells (i.e., cancer). Still, the day the hair falls out is a tough one for so many of us. I'm hoping this will be useful for at least a few patients, or their friends who want to do something to help <br />
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Shelley Noldenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15754737331270783298noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6469354586679171673.post-62753483552739154992013-06-29T15:31:00.003-04:002013-06-29T15:49:52.637-04:00Cloudy With a Chance of Meatballs<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on">
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Friday night, we participated in our town library's Second Annual Edible Book Celebration. We won three awards: Best Pre-K to 2nd Grade, Most Clever, and Coolest Mom. Well, that third one wasn't an official category, but we still won it. </div>
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I'd been talking to my mom about this contest ever since last summer when Katelyn and I attended the event (but didn't make a cake for it). I'd told my mom we had to enter this year, and go big. So she came out to help. <em>Cloudy With a Chance of Meatballs</em> is one of Katelyn's favorite books, and I liked the challenge of making the food look like it was raining from the clouds. </div>
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Our friends joined Team Meatball, and Brooke worked with me on the green frosting and sprinkle-covered base board and the marshmallow-and-frosting storm clouds (over a pizza screen), with spaghetti noodles, cupcakes, cheeseburgers, and meatballs raining down from them. Transport to the event was not easy. I drove 10mph, and Brooke rode in the way back, holding our storm clouds. Once at the library, we added all the food elements.</div>
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Once the contest was over, we dug into the components of our display. I couldn't believe how good the spaghetti and meatballs cake tasted. We had a wonderful time, and are already floating ideas for next year! It was a great team effort; we learned that it truly takes a village to make a meatball.</div>
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The below story appeared in the 2013 Edition of <em>(201) Health</em> (from the publishers of <em>(201) Magazine</em>.) The photographs were taken by <a href="http://www.magiquestudios.com/" target="_blank">Magique Studios.</a> I plan to write something for HuffPost so won't delve into it here, but in short: the story was a final nod to my hat collection, which helped me to feel better on the outside while I was feeling so bad on the inside. <br />
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Self-image is a big issue for cancer patients. In short: Bald ain't no fun. So hopefully this article, by Stephanie Akin (she did a great job on it), as well as the piece I plan to write for HuffPost, will help other cancer patients to see that a chic hat can make one feel just a tiny bit better about oneself.<br />
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